Mental Pause

Let me first start with yes I meant Mental Pause not Menopause even though sometimes there is a fine line between the two when life is happening. I had to take a mental pause a couple of days ago, my world seemed to be spinning out of place.
 Now for a moment Im going to speak to the ladies. There is something about hitting 35years of age that you begin to take a new perspective on life , but its something about those 40's !!! A time when your confidence level goes up and your tolerance level goes down. We are mothers, wives, daughters friends, co-workers, bread winners you name it we do it . How can you go through life and not pause and take a mental break?  Teacher , student, prayer warrior, lawyer (prosecuting and defending), doctor secretary you name it!!yet we must still have dinner on the table by 5pm.(Im just sayin ) . We develope health issues and dont understand WHY?  Cancer, tumors , depression, diabetes ...... they say you have to take care of yourself first. Who are these they's and why havent they helped us in finding that happy medium?

My mother always says she is going to write a book called things I learn from my daughter.