Dont ask don tell!!!!

Have you ever had one of those days, weeks, months heck moments where there is nothing tangible in your grasp yet there is something there ohhhhhh yeah the something is indescribable. Ok so your reading and asking what is she babbling about today. I cant really speak directly on it but, read between the lines.

 Woman and you have raised your children or is raising your children and you have dedicated your life to building and nurturing phenomenal offspring, when you look up you haven't lived your life. Your life was consumed with being dedicated to them and your reward is seeing them become "successful" what ever that word means in your world. Yet you realize you have to start to enter the dating  world which is scary on so many levels. Now I come from the generation where people lie by omission. They omit things like , they are in a relationship or should I say ummmm married or that the baby mom's is really MRS. ______. I'm not saying everyone is doing it but it happens more that not. You may be asking " where are you going" OUTSIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 I'm prepared to handle that, but what I have just learned  is the younger generation of fabulously , sexy , hot 2 year olds( meaning 20-30 year old menzzzzzz) are from the don't ask don't tell generation. Now let me clear up what I mean ,  the young ones are approaching mature sexy women, looking to learn somethings only woman over 40 can teach them (wink). You can have fun with them and don't get me wrong if you sleep one might catch you!! not all of them are walking around with their pants hanging low and mumbling !!!! trust me!!!!! But if you don't ask the right question you will not get the right answer. Now your not just worrying about the DL brothas, but the don't ask don't tell honeys. Now you may ask why are you talking to  someone in their 20's or 30's ? because they love women not in their 20's ,and the loving 40's don't wont want a  broken one tooth wonder. Just like men we like shiny new  vibrant  sexy ...... need I say more? This isn't your grandmother's 40's trust and believe that. This is a new breed of sexy!!!!

 Now if that isn't enough I keep hearing Stella get your groove on ,but if you really know the out come of the story this was a don't ask don't tell situation. she didn't ask was he gay? and he didn't tell her he was!!!!
I'm at a place in my life that if I ask you for something small just do it, sounds selfish and possibly like a drama queen but I AM  and you have to love me for it.
Now my thought is if your not at least 10 years older than my oldest  and dog years don't count!!! then I can only look but not touch.

Young ones if you want to keep the attention of a woman that is no longer in her 20's . Learn enough to teach her something  and you may be rewarded.

SMOOCHES!!!!!!!!!!