Refocus, back on my journey

Hi Everyone, We are in the month of march already!!! can you believe it? Well I didn't do anything I needed to do in February I decided to take the month off and just have fun, stepping out of my comfort zone and letting my hair down. I joined a dating website (disaster gone wild). How ironic the people I met in February were left  in February. All communication ceased as of Feb 28 2014. I moved to a new position at work which requires me to come into the office. That's a huge leap after, working 4 years at home  and it was a lateral move. The funny part with that is when people ask was that a promotion? and I say no it was a lateral move, they get this tone in their voice like awe you poor thing. Why do people do that? Yes more money would be awesome, but sometime the experience becomes priceless. People please stop doing that !!!!!!!!!

I have to get back to finishing my thesis so that I can complete this degree, but before I began writing that, I had to post this. While on the dating site I was pinged by about 20 vanilla brotha's ,and only 5 mocha brothas. The weeding process wasn't hard, Ladies if you want to see if a guy is going to stay or leave tell him your not going to have sex til your married. Move your ear from the phone because the click might be a little loud . hahahahhhhahahahhhaa.

I was up front and honest and I found out that's not wanted either, so I'm going to go back to what I originally said I was going to do in 2014 , just focus on me and walk out my journey and enjoy this walk. Yeah this wasn't my normal funny blog, but I was disappointed on the results. Why because in all of the  pings I gave a mocha brotha a chance and he was the worst one of them all . I was so disappointed . God said we are to help babies and fools and he wasn't a baby. I haven't dated a mocha in 14 yrs and my heart sank at his actions. Which proves my point, keep your virtue and you lose nothing .  When the Vanilla brothas pinged me I had to ask had they dated sistas before? and the consensus was no. So I ran into a girl friend and  told her my experience and she said she was encountering the same thing?? How crazy is that then she mentioned "SCANDAL" the television show. Well big ups to Kerri Washington and Shondra Rimes lol because  the Hot Chocolate Spice is on the radar lol. We have always been on the map now in our 15 mins of fame we are on the radar. Are the Vanilla Brothas  curious? YES they have always been , but not brave enough to step up. They felt the boardroom experience would be compromised. I will tell the world we are not the one tooth rag on the head wearing "who da whats" you see on television interviews. We are  EXTREMELY INTELLIGENT, EXTREMELY SEX, EXTREMELY ARTICULATE AND EXTREMELY LOYAL. OUR STOCK PRICES HAVE GONE UP, IN THE BOARDROOM TO THE BEDROOM!!! SO YOU BETTER INVEST!!! Lets keep walking……………..