Family make me crazy but I LOVE them …..

Sunday March 9th  one of the babies in my family was dedicated back to the Lord. I love this part because we realize they are on loan to us , we are just stewards over them so that they can walk in there purpose. Well my family will get together if someone screws in a light bulb , we will find any reason to get together. We usually gather at Kimmie's house and just hang out.

Well after this precious lil person was dedicated ( AVA DO ) we gathered together bringing food. You know a gathering isnt complete without Food. How awesome is it when food brings us together and my family members are pretty healthy eaters well not that day!!!! the sherbet  punch, bacon, sausage, sticky buns , brownies, salad, veggie lasagna,cake, egg muffins filled with broccoli, grape juice, orange  juice, champagne, wine , cucumber water …… We feasted and everyone  in the fam wasn't there, yet we still filled every seat. Well after everyone was full and satisfied the games begun!!!!! what game was that? All this single ladies please stand up!!! I only thought other cultures did this ,but not the African American culture. We create traditions and our new one is it lets single out who's single!!!! Oh Mel that's you ,another family event and your solo.

Well if it only  stopped there, It was light heart and funny, but what many don't understand at the appointed time whether I never leave my house, if I'm walking into a store, or even just driving down the street, he will find me. All I hear is well you wont meet him if your in the house, how do you know? He can be delivering a package to my door!! I KNOW MY FAMILY LOVES ME, but I'm not going to let just anyone in my space. When you meet someone it doesn't take all day to know whether they will waste your time or not. I'm not from the fake it generation, I'm from the what you see is what you get generation and its scary lol.

I was told to have as many male friends as female friends, well that not an easy thing to do. How many single straight men just want to be your friend? (maybe after he has smashed it and you decide  mutually naw lets just be friends). Plus if your a red hot chili pepper surrounding yourself with toys will tempt you(me ) to play with at least one(I'm just sayin) . So people  Some single people are willing to wait. PS my sister in love was giving me love advice. UMMMM I know who she married ………… ,Lets walk forward……...