One Day off

Today I played legal hooky, I requested the day off because I had been under the weather for about 2 weeks. What made me that way ? well I had worked from home for about  4 years, and I can only compare it to taking  lil person to day care , my body has to get use to being back with all of my wonderful colleagues. Now even though I love my people I'm use to being home, doing laundry on my lunch break and washing the dishes, sweeping , sitting out side in the summer  on a really hot day while on my breaks. I must confess it was glorious, but I moved to a new position and I had to go into the office.

One of my great conveniences was having a powder room in the same area , its private I don't even have to share it with my fabulous offspring. Well that has changed. I now have to go down the street turn two blocks hop a fence and fight a dragon to go now!!!!!!! OK I'm exaggerating, but it feels like I'm walking the green mile to get there, and when your not well IT GETS EVEN FURTHER!!!!!.

Well I remembered I had a pet peeve with  public bathrooms. What is it?? well you know how you walk into the bath room and there are 200 stalls  and you go to the 200th stall and all the other stalls are open. You prepare for your private time and someone walks in and sits in stall 199!!!!!!!!! REALLY PEOPLE!!!! UGGGGGGGGG MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR pet peeve.  Anyone who knows me knows I have silly quirks and they make me who I am. (WINK)


I took today off to recoup and it was well appreciated, I hooked up with one of my besties who was off too what a coincidence and we had girl time over food!!! you can't beat that.

Sometimes we just need one day off, to get back on our grind! Lets rest today and start walking tomorrow……..

Online dating

Hi everyone!!!!

Yes I have tried to join the new way to meet people. I have tried the online experience and I must say I have mixed reviews. I tried two different sites and I liked one better than the other. Why did I like over the other or even why did I do it?

Its hard meeting someone, and I seem to attract the Jeromes !!!! you know the geri curl wearing gold tooth having "girl what'cha talking bout" guys. As flattering as that is NOT!!!!!!!!!!! I struggle meeting new men. I'm a lil shy when it come to it, and I want to run and hide sometimes. I'm usually introduced to the person by a friend or acquaintance. Very really does it just happen on the fly and when it has I was approached by bootleg ex con who doesn't know the day he was released eeeeeekkkkkkk!!!!!!!

I at one point  I gave up, if its not a mama's boy, its the napoleon complex, over confident, insecure bugga boo's. So I decided in secret to go online. I did it and I figured since it stated that the person may be a christian that hey this may be ok. I must first say the experience is an ego booster , you get allot of hits but when you look at who hit you , you almost want to cry. Where in my profile did it say I wanted to meet Methuselah?  Snagga puss,  nursing home candidates. Im not into changing diapers on any grown person!!!!lol. I closed that profile last year and recently tried it again. Well this site was better because the people seem to be more real. The pings went from funny do darn right out spooky!!!! some one said " don't be scared"  ummmm delete!!!!!

I deleted the profile, but would I recommend it yes!! its fun!!

Oh did I mention the day I tried to delete the profile it wouldn't let me and right after I was pinged by one of the best conversationalist that keeps me smiling…….. to be continued. hahahahahhha lets keep walking.

Friendship part 2

I was sitting one day and I wondered what did all of my girlfriends have in common? Now I want to inform you, I'm very particular about who I allow in my space on a "love you "level.  I take a long time to allow someone in my heart space, but once your there it would take something drastic to have you removed from my space, but your never removed from my heart. Well that's how I feel about my girl friends. Good girlfriends are hard to find, so when you find a few holding on to them and loving them is VERY important.

Getting back to my girls , I was trying to see why we were all friends, and what was the common strand that holds us together. It dawned on me and they are going to kill me for saying this , but we are women who love the Lord and have extra over the top sex drives lol hahahahahahahhahaa.

The fact that we love the Lord more!!! keeps us in a place of waiting until we are married before we indulge in that miraculous intimate exercise , but if it wasn't for our faith, I could only imagine how we would act. SMH

See I have watched many shows about how men think about sex every 2 seconds or every 2 minutes which ever it is, and how women think of it once every 30 days or something stupid like that. WHO ARE THEY INTERVIEWING FOR THESE STATS????????. I m going to tell you they havent interviewed my crew hahahahahahhah we cant get through a conversation without it coming up. We talk about it all the time, hahahahahahah.  We actually compare how long its been since the last time . An some are rounding a decade, but let me reassure you the " red hot chilly pepper" is still in affect !!!!! trust there are no cob webs there !!!!!! I only pity the man who gets us to say I DO!!!! LOL he will need to take a leave of absence from work, to recover from one of the red hot pepper crew members. lol

OK I'm to candid for some , but I tell the truth of most.  I love my girls  we are the HOLY ROLLER RED HOT CHILI PEPPERS!!!

I DONT FEEL LIKE IT!!!!!!

I have  heard from both of my boys on different occasions the words" I don't feel like it." Now me being the mother I am understoods the context of the phrase but my reaction may have not expressed my  understanding.

Let start with mom's precious baby boy, some of you have seen me refer to him as my Pooder Doo and he will always be that to me, but when my male child said to his single parenting mother "I don't feel like it" Pooder became #@$%$#@$#^%$&%&^(^*&(*&(*_)(*()*+)_( please what did you say!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????????????????????. ( I didn't swear but that would have fit the moment. LOL.
I said you don't feel like it, well I don't feel like paying the mortgage , gas bill, phone bill, grocery shop what else you got?!!  I told him get out of your feelings don't no body give a " FLYING FIG NEWTON " about your feeling. I m glad you have them and I have always expressed its OK to show them, but you cant live by them. Your going to be a man one day and your feelings can't determine your destiny. Unfortunately I have seen to many men and I'm sorry if you feel offended but , as a woman I have seen to many men not so much say I don't feel like it, but live the phrase out. I don't feel like opening the door  for you, I don't feel like fixing this , I don't feel like going to work, I dont feel like moving out of my mama's house (oops did I say that?) the only ones offended are the ones that it apply to so either say ouch or amen hahahahahahah.

Getting back to the topic as I raise boys to men, "I don't feel like it" does not translate to mandom!!!!!!!

Now my other child  Doopsey doo another precious miracle I've been blessed with, he is working on finishing his associates to move over to his Bachelors I'm so proud, but he said  the phrase " I don't feel like it" to me.  My head spun around and almost detached from  my neck.  I told him because he is a little older " DON'T NO BODY CARE !!!!!!!!" about your feeling, your in mandom and get out of your feelings they don't apply when it comes to business!!!!!!! I realized I had over reacted and went back and asked him to come and sit with me on the couch.  See he was dragging his feet on getting his application in to a 4 year university so I spoke to him in his language( his pockets)

I told him that if he isn't in school in the fall he will have to have 1 full time job or 2 part-time jobs which ever one he prefers he will have to do 40hrs, theN pay me $350 in rent, the light bill, his own groceries and toiletries plus his cell bill. Or he could be in school full time working part time and he just have to pay the light bill (I don't believe in any man living rent free in your home if your a single mom). Well needless to say he spoke with the university person. He found out he has to stay where he is one more semester take 3 more classes before he will be accepted into the program he wants. He said "I don't feel like... staying there one more semester ,but  he is proceeding forward and he isn't  in his feelings!!!!!!! A mothers love never dies.

Queen Slave Mom lady!!!

I realized today this is the title I hold proudly!!! Others may chose to just be called  "mom." Why do I like this title? Because I have two sons who love me very much and whom I love more than words could ever discribe.
I worked from home many years and though they had keys they would come up missing.well the other day the Doopster forgot his key (it was in his pants pocket, the ones he was wearing) and couldn't get into the house til I got home. Once he gets home he tells me, if you got off earlier we could have gotten your gift. How sweet! I get to drive him to the place he was getting my gift from.
My Pooder doo is growing faster than my wallet can handle. He needed a new winter coat and I had the privilege of getting it for him, while he asked for new jeans,and shirt(he only got the coat).
At those wonderful times I forget about being a Queen, but then I walked in the door and  my laundry is folded and on my bed in a neat pile because of Doop, then I hear mom what do you want for dinner my treat ,says my Pooder doo. The Valentines Day gift Doop wants to get me is my favorite!! An edible arrangements Bouquet. !!!!! They love me. I don't mine being the "Queen slave mom lady" my boys  are worth it. Much love and Happy Valentines Day!!!!