Friendship

             As we wonder through the challenges of life, the journey is full of surprises if you embrace the journey for what it is . I just got off work and thoughts have flooded my mind. I began to think about the women that are apart of my everyday life. Not my mom and Aunties  but the day to day  ladies. YES FELLA'S we can dwell amongst each other with out a squabble. I was trying to see what we all had in common . I began to run through the different personalities and no one has anything in common, then the !AHA! moment set in.
         
           We all serve the Lord in one way or another and just like a marriage  he is needed in friendships. Not everyone is your friend and yes there are gray areas between associate, acquaintances and buddies, but there are clear cut lines to friend ship. Some levels are deeper  than others but we all know who holds the key to our outcomes as we walk out this journey.

             This is the first time in my life I have had numerous female friends beyond my cousins, Kimmie ,Tiff and Fana. My brother even commented to one of my sister friends "I'm so happy your friends with my sister." I looked at him and was in shock! you would think I had a hump on my back, one tooth and one eye.  He is special but I will tell you more about him later he is a story within himself. lol. Getting back to my cousins , I always wondered where did my personality come from? Kimmie is a lion true to her Leo heart she ROARS!!! yet she is the smallest of us and the oldest. Don't make her mad!!!, but she laughs as hard as she fusses. Tiffy has always been the coolest, yet toughest one. If she hits you one time your going down. I see a softer side of her after having two little guys later in life. Maybe its not that she's softer maybe she is just tired(hahahahaha) . I was with them for 30mins one day and I had to go home and take a nap. She is the mother of the "Sons of Thunder."  Fana is quiet has always been, but do not sleep on her. She will say whats important at the time it needs to be said and when she gives you that look!!!! Y'all know the look the: " don't mess with me or else I will……………" She is really sweet and can cook her butt off but you will never know if she doesn't want you to.  Then there is me!!!!! I walk in almost kicking the door and they just look at me and say that's just Mel. They let me be me, extra over the top, with a twist of ocd lol.

Now you may wonder who are her friends beyond that? lets keep walking………………….